Saturday, April 30, 2011

The ecstasy and the agony

If anyone had asked me, two days ago, to name a common factor that could lead to ecstasy on the one hand and inexpressible agony on the other, I would have been hard put to find an answer. Little would I have guessed then that the answer was not far to seek: it could be summed up in three words: the Indian Railways.

Not even a month ago, on April 3 to be precise, on a high already due to India’s spectacular moment of triumph the night before, the siblings and I-spouses and kids in tow-had boarded Black Diamond Express at Howrah junction at 6 AM sharp-a fleet of three cars having cruised us to the precise bogey (a luxury possible only at Howrah Jn)-a feat in itself, considering that it was a 13 member team-of folks ranging from age 12 to 55-that had caroused till the wee hours of the morning!! And then had started one of the most memorable journeys of our lives, when recollections of countless such trips undertaken before coalesced to form a beautiful collage of memories, when the past and the present merged seamlessly till the actual and the remembered became inseparable.

As the train chugged out of the station, there seemed to be some semblance of setting down-but did we ever? With frenetic movement and constant exchange of seats right through-there was always something happening. Some buried themselves behind the newspaper, some gave in to mindless chatter, some dozed off-and there was brief respite-for the other passengers that is, till some bright spark posed the unavoidable query-breakfast? And that magic word unlocked a series of transactions with hawkers who boarded the train and disembarked at every station, transporting us to the days of yore as nothing else could have. For the Rajdhanis and Shatabdis of the world have deprived us of these simple pleasures of life, where the incessant flux adds a t charm all its own to such solourns. But that day, it was a no holds barred kind of situation-rounds of steaming cups of tea were followed by coffee, then back to tea, depending on what the vendor was selling; these were interspersed with-two dozen shingaaras (read samosas) at Burdwan and three rounds of jhaal muri prepared with enviable dexterity by the camera shy seller. The samosas were scarcely finished when Durgapur station came and young Manoj remembered that samosas there used to be far superior to the ones at Burdwan but the limitations of the tummy’s capacity to ingest goodies came in the way, much to our collective chagrin. A beggar rendering baul sangeet at his melodious best-and sung to the tune of an ektara-completed the perfect picture, as the sometimes mountainous, sometimes green stretches dotted the fleeting terrain outside………..

Alighting at Kumardhubi station brought a horde of memories, Papa's and Mummy's reigning supreme. Of another life in another time…almost on another planet, it seemed. (A chap actually came up and asked if we had come for a shoot!!) The drive to good ole Maithon, albeit through unfamiliar roads, brought a fresh flood of memories and then, we entered the sleepy little place that was home to us for twenty long years, past Main Gate, the cluster of shops that have sprung up there, the Hospital, the Post Office area, the dear old Valley/De Nobili school building and on to the dam till the road gently swerved left and the cavalcade made its way to the lake's edge, stopping finally at the Chairman’s Guest House, which was to be our temporary abode. Everything was the same and yet things were very different-strange but true. The sameness was in the long forgotten landmarks being there, the strangeness in the spruced up look, the neat sign-ages demarcating every area: it was as if a haphazard diagram had been neatly labelled.

No words can do justice to those two days, as we first made a beeline for A 2 Gogna Colony, the home from where we’d bade farewell to the valley (and the house from which the parents had got their two, older children married off, welcoming Babboo and bhabhi into the fold.) Even the noontime sun seemed benign as we marched right through the colony, stopping every other moment in front of a friend’s house, overwhelmed, afresh. A sumptuous meal, then off on a reconnoiter of the different ‘areas’, but first and foremost, the legendary Dam that’s synonymous with the place. A leisurely walk on the dam, pointing out the gates to the kids and telling them that these would release water in the monsoon season , describing how majestic the sight was; then walking further to the hill that proudly housed Asia’s first underground Hydel power station.

Boating was next on the agenda and though some of us refrained, the kiddos-Srishti, Jayati, Rahil and Ramit-with Bhaiya as the perfect escort, trooped into a steam boat while the more adventurous Jiwesh, Amrita, Saagar and Tanvee opted for the paddle boat. Suitably invigorated and ravenous, in direct proportion to the rigorous activity, we next walked into Vishram Kutir (now called an alien sounding, Mazumdar Niwas) and watched sunset from the balcony overlooking the lake, snacks and tea suitably taking centre stage, putting all conversation in temporary abeyance.

The drive back entailed crossing the Forest Guest house, pointing out the Yacht Club then down Dyke area, the CLD office and many other familiar landmarks till finally, via a circuitous route, we reached MB 6, the place where myriad memories of an idyllic childhood reared their head. The present owners very kindly agreed to let us enter their home and then there was no holding back!! We were all over the place, in the spacious courtyard, which the kids could scarce digest, ‘our’ room, the ‘pink’ room, the parents' room, the drawing cum dining hall, the kitchen, the veranda with the U shaped bench... all vied for attention. In between, our gracious hostess, who could have been forgiven for regretting her initial generosity in allowing us in, came up with platefuls of assorted snacks and dry fruits that were consumed with delightful gusto. In the midst of all the excitement around, I paused for a moment, mulling on the fact how small towns still retain the old world charm and warmth that is extended to guests-even perfect strangers-whereas city-bred folks sometimes don’t even recognize their next door neighbours! A telling comment on the times we live in.

We decided to walk through the colony now, down the beaten track that was Manoj and Leena’s bus stop, towards Area 1, Recreation Club and Station Club in that order. Turning left and past the Civil Office on the right, then Alka’s house, we were finally in front of the place where it had all begun-D-8 or Palace named by Bhaiya (who else?) as we lovingly called it, which a certain Sharan family had moved into decades ago. August was a historic month for us too, though twenty years later than that other historic date-2 days to the day. And that’s where we had set anchor, spread our roots and known no other place before or since. This was the home adopted- and adapted to- this obscure yet wonderful haven called Maithon that we took as our real home for ever and forever; where our hearts and minds developed, our dreams took wings.

We were suffused with memories when we stood before the gate-too overwhelmed to speak. The children had dozens of questions as they beheld a compound full of trees like guava, jamun, plum, jackfruit, dotted occasionally by huge rocks and boulders. More stories of our adventurous youth followed, more recollections of the past were made, till sated and promising to return the next day, we moved to other areas.

The second day, befittingly, began with darshan at Ma Kalyaneshwari temple, where Bhaiya had a special pooja perofrmed in our parents' memory, a solemn moment for us all as we remembered their immeasurable contribution in making us whatever we are today. A gorging ritual followed as, seated on wooden benches, we consumed luchi-aloo dum, aloo chops, samosas, chumchum in a tiny shop in the P.O area. The rest of the day passed in a whir of activity: D-8 by day, a walk by the lake, stone throwing & watching the stones bounce on the surface of the water... the weather a perfect blend of clouds and cool breeze, as if doing its best to make this already memorable trip completely unforgettable. A lavish lunch, prepared painstakingly by the cook and served lovingly by his team and it was time to bid goodbye to this quaint little township, Magical Maithon. Amidst comments like ‘Wow, Mamma, you guys grew up in a holiday resort!” and “We’ll definitely come back again” we made our way to Asansol station, 25 km away. A quick recci of our Alma Mater-Loreto Convent Asansol-LCA to us- showing off the majestic grounds, the basket ball courts, the lower fields, the hockey ground, the class rooms, the grotto and the gate that led into St. Patrcik’s and it was time to finally wind up and make our way to the station.

That was almost a month ago: when sheer ecstasy was ours and then, on April 29, the other side of the Indian Railways reared its ugly head, making us reach the nadir of gloom. That was the day when a certain train got delayed by 11 ½ hours, which put paid to a long cherished dream-this time of going back for a reunion, to the dearly-loved college we studied in-for two of us. It was as if April (the cruelest month?) wanted us to get a taste of the sweetest and the bitterest pill all in a go.

Well such is life, but that's another story........

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Breaking News

Finally, World Cup Cricket has made one new conversion.
Jai ho!!

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Incredible Aamir

No contemporary Indian actor has the kind of talent he has. This may be considered debatable, but as far as I am concerned, there’s no other actor quite in his league. From lighthearted comedies, where viewers held their sides watching his antics, to soulful intense roles of the forlorn lover or the deserted husband; from playing a die hard patriotic police officer, to a cold, unfeeling terrorist; from the rabble-rousing leader of a set of country bumpkins-exhorting them to rise above petty divisions and performing beyond the realm of reason-to the more recent avatars-again as varied as they come-he has taken everything in his stride. Whether it was as the sensitive school teacher gently cajoling the deep seated creativity of a dyslexic child or depicting the role of an amnesia-struck individual himself, his tormented soul crying for revenge…..Aamir Khan has done it all. And I’m but one of the millions who think like this; people who have been moved beyond words….at the same time, discerning the variety even within ostensibly similar roles, both equally challenging. For a man of forty to have played the role of a college student (albeit a 3-4-time repeater!) with the kind of élan-even insouciance- that Aamir Khan displayed is worthy of true admiration.
And yet, one saw a totally different side in the depiction of another college student-the path breaker, the innovator, the thinker, the scientist, the ultimate friend-in another movie which has gained iconic stature. The list is endless but it is not this aspect of this powerhouse of talent that has inspired this write-up. Watching one of his eminently repeatable movies for the nth time, the other day, I suddenly realized that the uniqueness of his films stems not just from the fact that he has displayed true variety in his choice of roles but also in the sheer diversity of fair ladies who have played lead roles against him. Few can match him in this kind of variety either! From completely new entrants to veteran actresses, he has acted with them all, seldom repeating a heroine and even doing a movie without any romantic lead.

Perhaps Juhi Chawla, his first leading lady, is the only one who can claim to have worked with him thrice-two of them blockbusters-one a terrible tragedy, the other a terrific comedy with the underlying message of a never-say-die attitude.

Otherwise, the range is unending, from Pooja Bhatt to Ayesha Jhulka, Monisha Koirala and Twinkle Khanna, to Raveena Tandon. From the oomphy Urmila to the gorgeous Madhuri Dixit, the dusky Nandita Das to the sultry Pooja Bedi, he has romanced them all. But hardly has an actress had the honour of being recast against him. He is as comfortable acting with debutantes like Gracy Singh, as he is with seasoned actresses like Preity Zinta; the fame and popularity of the heroine has never mattered to him. Whether it was Sonali Bendre urging him on with her 'don't mind' prattle or a first timer for Hindi movies, Asin, guilelessly flirting with him blissfully aware of his identity, his panache was evident in each character he effortlessly portrayed. Rani Mukherjee has had the privilege of repeating a couple of movies but her more talented cousin, Kajol, could only just be paired with him once, in a much hyped movie. The Kapoor clan damsels-Kareena and Karishma-have also had their fair share with this super talented hero, the younger sibling getting the opportunity as late as 2009.

Not only have new faces been launched against him in the romantic lead, the wide array sometimes includes international names as well -Rachel Shelley and Sue Patten to name a few.

Women may come and women may go but he goes on forever: this man carries on alone, not needing any support or lucky mascot as his co-star. His only companion is his matchless talent.

Way to go, Aamir!!




Saturday, January 29, 2011

The silver lining

Having a fractured foot can be an edifying experience, is the latest lesson in my Book of Life, It gives you another perspective-into the not so hunky dory side of life. You get to know what a masterpiece creation of God the human form is, when one, small part of the mechanism conks out, the system is thrown completely out of gear. Every limb and muscle coordinated to perfection, the motor nerves conditioned to obey the dictates of the brain and life ambles along peacefully. And then comes one minor snag in the scheme of things and all goes haywire. You twist an ankle and get your leg all plastered. With the unexpectedness of winter rain, comes the realization that you can’t budge an inch if your ankle gives way. The movements we take so much for granted, the simple act of walking, even running, scaling flights of stairs, commuting on the metro, dodging in and out of shops…all take a backseat. All normal activities became ordeals, managing to move within the house is a challenge and one looks enviously at ordinary mortals sashaying about in their daily routine.

That having been said, having your leg in a cast and putting up with the inconvenience is just one side of the coin. When you have to suffer weeks of such existence many home truths dawn. The most important being not ever to take anything for granted. To value the gifts of the Almighty and not-wantonly or otherwise-to ever abuse them. And if at all, such minor mishaps happen, to bear them with a smile and remember the cloud will last but a while-the sun will eventually break through the overcast sky.

The experience also gives you new insights-you empathize that much more with the old and infirm, the obese, the physically challenged for whom moving with difficulty is a way of life; without let up. And each time you’re close to reaching the end of your tether the hard-hitting line-I complained that I had no shoes, till I met a man who had no feet-saves you from giving in to despair, just in the nick of time. You feel ashamed of cribbing about your temporary disability even as you acquire a heightened sensibility about the world around you.

Another aspect of this phase is the gratifying realization that there’s a huge amount of empathy and understanding that such a situation generates. At home, you expect folks to be sympathetic and caring (though the thoughtful ministrations of the maid still move you) but it is when everyone at the workplace shows so much concern that you really feel touched. Right from getting the work station temporarily shifted to the ground floor because going up two floors is out of the question, to everyone holding all meetings at your desk, to organizing all demos in the meeting room adjacent to your seat, to the pantry guys serving and bringing your food downstairs, it all beggars description. I've lost count how many helping hands were extended to me each day when I arrived at work, how many times thoughtful colleagues collected print-outs to prevent the short walk to the printer, or how one of the administrative staff unfailingly carried my bag and baggage (!!) and left only after connecting the laptop. Countless acts of kindness, innumerable warm gestures that are stored forever in my memory. (But on the flip side, the truth in Rahim's well-known couplet, "Rahiman vipda ho bhali, jo thode din hoye, hit, unhit ya jagat me , jaani parat sab koye." " is also brought home to you the hard way!!)

The silver lining is always there-in every situation; it’s for us to spot it, folks.